Let us do the flattering, you take the credit

Never miss another birthday, anniversary, or special moment. Flattery remembers, curates, and delivers perfect gifts and experiences; so you're always the thoughtful one.

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Tell us about them

We curate the perfect surprise

You take the credit

Process

How Flattery Works

We make thoughtful gifting effortless: Our flatteliers are experts in gifting/experience creating.

Tell us About Them

Send us your contact details and we'll be in touch shortly. Tell us about the person you want to flatter (their hobbies, favourite things, personality and a couple of other things) and we'll work on it.

We Curate the Perfect Surprise

Flatteliers hand-pick gifts or experiences designed to impress and create bonding moments. With Flattery, there will be no more last minute scrambling

You Take the Credit

We handle the reminders, planning and even the delivery. You just get to look like the thoughtful genius or if you just want tailored gift ideas, we're happy to do that for you too!

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Our Story, Your Path

WHY choose Flattery.

Because the best gifts are the ones that feel like you really know them. Finding the perfect gift shouldn’t be stressful. Flattery takes your insights, cross-references thousands of curated experiences, and matches them to what will genuinely move them: whether it’s skydiving over the coast or a quiet handwritten letter delivered with flowers.

✔ Personalized through details given
✔ Automated reminders for birthdays, anniversaries, and milestones
✔ Expertly sourced experiences and gifts
✔ Seamless delivery and coordination

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Experience

Gifting Mode

Choose How You Would Like To Flatter

Option 1:

Gift suggestions only

We’ll send tailored ideas ahead of their special dates. You decide what to buy.

Get my suggestions

Option 2:

Let Flattery handle everything

From concept to delivery — we’ll plan and execute the entire surprise.

Plan the whole surprise

“Flattery remembered our anniversary before I did — and somehow nailed a surprise that felt exactly like us.”

- Sarah and Tom

Testimonials

What Our Flaterers Say

“The experiences are thoughtful and personal — not generic gift boxes. I love that.”
— Amy L.

“I used to panic every birthday. Now I get a message from Flattery, approve the plan, and done.”
— Jake, Sydney

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“Flattery remembered our anniversary before I did ; and somehow nailed a surprise that felt exactly like us.”

- Sarah and Tom

Sarah and Tom

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Our Services

What you will Get

Finding the perfect gift shouldn’t be stressful. Flattery takes your insights, cross-references thousands of curated experiences, and matches them to what will genuinely move them — whether it’s skydiving over the coast or a quiet handwritten letter delivered with flowers.

Never Forget Again

We track every important date automatically

Perfectly Personalized

Flatteliers curates gifts shaped by their uniquepersonality based on what you tell us about them.

Effortlessly Thoughful

From reminders to recommendations, all in one place.

Experiences that connects

Discover practical tips to establish a consistent home practice that nurtures both body and mind, regardless of space or time.

You take full credit

Understand how incorporating meditation into your yoga practice helps achieve inner peace and heightened self-awareness.

Surprises made simple

Explore simple yet effective yoga routines that help release tension and promote relaxation throughout your day.

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Secure your Spot! Quick Verification

We ask for a $1 verification to ensure real human sign-ups. You’ll get a receipt instantly and access to the Flattery planner.

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About us

Our Story

We believe the best relationships deserve better than last-minute flowers.

Flattery was born from a simple truth: caring deeply about people shouldn't require a perfect memory. We get to know the special people in your life, track what matters to them, and surface thoughtful gift and experience ideas right when you need them.

Being thoughtful isn't about having the best memory—it's about showing up when it matters.

Let us do the flattering. You take the credit.

Donna Paulsen

Founder

Jessica Pearson

Flattelier Expert

Rachel Zane

Flattelier Expert

Our Partners

In Collaboration With

Together with our trusted partners, we elevate every experience; blending expertise, creativity, and care to deliver moments that truly flatter.

FAQs

Frequently asked Questions

How much does it cost?

You can start exploring Flattery for free. Once you’re ready to bring an idea to life, we’ll tailor the experience to your budget, whether it’s a simple gesture or something truly grand.

Every suggestion and plan is transparent and priced before you commit.

Will I be charged anything?

We only verify your card for $1 to confirm you’re real. You won’t be charged unless you choose to move forward later.

What makes Flattery different from other gift sites?

Every idea is chosen by real humans (our professional team of Flatteliers) who understand relationships. We don’t just recommend gifts — we curate moments of gratitude that feel genuinely personal.

What happens to my information

Everything you share is encrypted and private. We only use it to match the right gifts — never for marketing or sharing.

How soon will I see my gift ideas?

Usually within 24 hours. Our Flattery Gift Concierge reviews what you share and personally curates your first set of ideas

Do I need to have a specific occasion in mind?

Not at all. While we love birthdays, anniversaries, and milestones, some of our favorite flattery moments are just because. Sometimes the best surprises happen for no reason at all.